my daddy and marriage

 

This is some of the qualities that really shows my dad:

Keeping quiet is better than nonsense:Daddy,like my mama always said is quiet and tend to keep something to himself rather than telling others.There was once when he achieved a great position,yet all of his relatives do not know about it including me.I only know about his position when i saw some pamphlet about soil convention or something.It seems that i unconsciously follow this quality the most.

Determination:It seems that my daddy loves to work.Sometimes he even go to work on Saturday.I think this is utmost things about my dad's quality.I got a bit of this quality but sometimes i just drift away when i am planning in doing something.

  

Simple and practical:My dad and my mom got married in the US.The reception was so simple.They have their akad nikah and a bit of makan-makan with some friends,and that is it.My parents wedding reception are really different if compared to most of the Malays.Malays wedding tend to have bersanding, hantaran and those sort of stuff.At first i thought that my dad is just lazy to get in those stuff but actually he is truly following the Islamic way in getting married.Most of our society got mix between what should we really do and just plain culture which sometimes contradict with Islam.I have nothing against culture as matter of fact i even learn to play the Kompang during my second year in UPM.Culture shows the identity of a society.

There are much more of my dad in me that even i did not notice.Actually the third point is what i really want to talk about(maybe on the next post).Simple and practical marriage according to Islam.The reason why i am interested in this topic because i am reading a story called Cinta SMS by Aiman Azlan in his blog.

Aiman Azlan:listed as top10 Malaysian v-logger

My dad really shows me how life is and every little things he does have a reason behind it.The funny thing about the above picture is,actually Aiman Azlan do have the same looks as my dad with the beard and spec.coincidence kot.

p/s:do try to visit Aiman Azlan Blog and V-log.